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Sirius Project
Self-Help
for Self-Harm
Prevention
These
tips for physically preventing self-injury are
particularly good
for people who tend to SI on impulse, or whose SI is putting their
health
seriously at risk. They can also help other self-injurers avoid
temptation.
Remember, SI is a coping mechanism and making it physically impossible
will not
deal with the issues that originally caused it, so you'll probably need
to use
the Things
to do instead and Tackling
the causes in conjunction with these suggestions.
- Throw
away anything you use to SI that you don't strictly need for other
purposes. If you feel unable to throw something out, put it somewhere
that's difficult or time-consuming to get at.
- Try
to minimise the dangers from items you use to SI but also need for
other purposes. For example, only keep a couple of painkillers in the
house rather than a whole box.
- If
you're on medication and overdosing is an issue, talk to your doctor or
pharmacist about dispensing your pills in smaller quantities, or ask a
friend or family member to look after them for you.
- Think
about the situations in which you usually SI, and about the things that
trigger you. Write these situations and factors down, then divide them
into three categories: things that can always be reasonably avoided
(e.g. drinking alcohol), things that can sometimes be avoided or can be
avoided in the short term (e.g. being at home alone), and things that
can't reasonably be avoided (e.g. being criticised). To decide whether
something can be "reasonably" avoided or not, think about what your
quality of life would be like without it, as well as the lengths you
would have to go to to avoid it. Aim to avoid everything in the first
category. You might want to also avoid things in the second category at
times when you feel particularly at risk, or where practical.
A word of warning: Most triggers can't be
avoided forever, and in the long run you will need to be prepared to
learn to cope with them. To help you cope with those triggers you can't
avoid, take a look at Tackling
the causes, or ask for a therapist's help.
- If
your SI is putting your health seriously at risk, consider going into
hospital or to another safe place such as a crisis house. You don't
have to wait for someone else to suggest this - if you think
hospitalisation would help, talk to your doctor or therapist about it.
- If
you find your attempts to prevent SI just lead to you being more
creative in the ways you do it, or you switch to equally unhealthy
behaviours (such as eating disorders or substance misuse), look
at Things
to do instead to find healthier ways of coping.
Please note: Sirius Project is a collection of resources compiled by a recovered self-harmer. I am not a mental health professional and this website should not be used as a substitute for seeking appropriate professional help.
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